How I became a phone sex Mommy – from Miss Emma

Mommy phone sex It started small, as babies do, and entirely by accident, also often the case with babies. Occasionally a caller would want to call me “mommy” and cuddle and nurse, and I found that while this makes a lot of phone sex ladies go a little cross-eyed, it didn’t bother me at all. I just never found the “creepy factor” in it–quite the opposite; I found my adult babies and little boys and sissy girls simply had deep needs for affection, love, and nurture that aren’t often accepted in our culture. I enjoy meeting those needs! And if those needs and their fulfillment gets a bit (or a lot) eroticized from time to time, well, why not? We’re all adults here, with adult needs alongside our regressed infantile needs.

teddybearThen along came a new caller (you know who you are) who is just a riot! She throws temper tantrums, gets diaper changes and occasional spankings, loves baby wipes, lotion, and soft cool powder, and usually ends up settling down to nurse with me in our rocking chair. What a total fantasy immersion–and one that I know how to do well, having already been a very happy mom once up a time!

Mistress June said, “Miss Emma, you have to do ABDL phone sex.” And so, after figuring out that Mistress June didn’t simply have her ABC’s out of order, Mommy Emma came into being. Mommy Emma adores adult babies and toddlers, and little bitty toddler sissies. I made my mommy phone sex website, www.phonesexabdl.com, and I’m looking forward to doing some very fun stuff with it. Custom audio bedtime stories; maybe a daycare subscription service!

Because age play and mom phone sex aren’t allowed on Niteflirt, I’ve branched out with my own toll-free number for my adult baby and diaper lover callers: 1-888-249-2374. So check it out, and if you want some mommy time, call me! I’d love to hear from you :)

Mommy Emma

 

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The economics of phone sex – how the business works

There is a myth that phone sex is easy money and that anyone can get rich doing it.

I’m writing this post to dispel rumors and give new phone sex operators (PSOs) a clearer picture of the industry and also to educate callers on their options.  To share what happens to each dollar spent on phone sex.  I genuinely love the phone sex industry and everything I share here is intended to deepen your enjoyment of my favorite pastime whether you are a caller or a PSO.

Phone sex is a fun business!  But it IS a business.  With expenses and financial concerns like any other business.

getyourkinkonI have wanted to write this blog for a long time, but I was spurred to do it now because a recent caller told me he imagined I make six figures and that I earn far more per hour than he does.  Ha!  lol  I am still laughing at that.

This industry can reward a woman well if she has certain gifts and abilities, but it is not likely to make a PSO rich.  Here are some of the details…

There are three main business models in this industry.  Many PSO’s work one model or another, some work combinations of these options.  All of these options have their benefits.

Dispatch phone sex agencies

Agencies advertise and develop loyal callers based on fetish niches or price points.  The better ones heavily screen applicants and offer their PSOs training and other support.  They have centralized billing and offer callers a more consistent experience when calling a range of PSOs.  They offer PSOs a more reliable stream of calls and income.  Dispatch agencies typically pay the PSO about 25% to 35% of what a customer pays per minute, sometimes more.

Bad dispatch companies provide little support for their PSOs, offer inconsistent experiences for their callers, and pay their operators as little as 10% of what the caller is spending on his call.  Do your research when choosing a dispatch company!  The good ones are great and the bad ones are hideous.

To keep caller experiences consistent and to protect themselves from PSOs with bad judgement, dispatch agencies usually have lots of rules.  Not always, but usually.

Phone sex platforms

phonesexfunPlatforms like NiteFlirt and AdultPhonePal allow more independent-minded women to set up shop and work their own hours and set their own rates.  There is no screening process and no training provided, so callers can expect inconsistent experiences when calling different PSOs.  But there is a centralized phone system and billing set-up, so women do not have to obtain toll free numbers or process payments at all and guys can set up billing once and then use their funds for multiple calls with multiple providers.  PSOs can expect some organic traffic on most platforms but should also plan to blog or advertise or use social media to build an audience as well.  Rates on platforms vary wildly as women set their own prices.  The platform usually keeps 35% to 40% of that and the PSO gets 60% to 65%.

Phone sex platforms tend to have fewer rules than dispatch agencies, but they still have a list of forbidden topics.

Direct dial independent phone sex operators

Direct dial PSO’s are fully independent phone sex professionals.  They create their own businesses from scratch, obtaining their own phone lines, payment processors, marketing channels, etc. etc.  They can charge what they like and depending on their processing costs and marketing costs and other overhead, they likely keep 70% to 80% of what the caller spends on a call.  The advantage for PSOs of going this route is total autonomy and fewer rules and a closer relationship with your callers.  The advantage for callers would be no annoying interruptions while the platform reauthorizes your card, no restrictions other than respecting the limits set by your PSO, and knowing that you are supporting a true entrepreneur.  Plus, there is always a slight risk with platforms and dispatch companies that something will happen and your operator may leave that setting.  There are generally contracts that would prevent her from contacting you (even to say goodbye!) if she leaves.  With direct dial calling, the relationship is more personal and there is no company between you.

The business in general

spoilyourgoddessA good phone sex operator can hope to be on the phone about 30% to 40% of the time she is logged in for calls.  A great operator can hope 50% to 60% of her logged in time spent on calls.  So whatever she earns per hour while on a call needs to be stretched out to cover the hours when she is waiting for a call.  And those hours are not spent eating bon bons and watching tv!  Today, virtually all PSOs must spend time blogging, tweeting, texting, creating advertising, keeping up her bookkeeping, studying her fetish niches, and emailing (and emailing and emailing).  This career path is a ton of work!!  Long hours spent with callers that are often narcissistic and sometimes really emotionally damaged.  Some callers are abusive.  Many confuse fantasy and reality.  And most have little regard for what their PSO is experiencing.  Then there are the wankers that want your time but will not call!  Ack!

To be a PSO today, you must be tough, smart, efficient and filthy!  Plus, everyone and their sister is trying phone sex because of this rotten economy, so you need to bring something special to the table.  All that being said, if you have what it takes, being a phone sex operator is a total fucking blast!  :)  lol  I love my “work”.

In conclusion

There is a cost of doing business for any industry and I never resent the percentage of my income that goes to a platform or processor.  Callers and PSOs alike should accept that these necessary costs provide many invaluable benefits like essential anonymity and easy ways for us to find each other and simple credit card processing.  I shared the above information to help you make educated choices about where to work and how to spend your phone bone dollars on fun filthy entertainment with fabulous talented women.  If you have any questions or concerns, please share them in the comments area below and I will reply promptly.

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FemDom phone sex Mistress extraordinaire,

Mistress June

PS:  I’m on NiteFlirt and AdultPhonePal, but I also recently went fully independent with my own toll free number and the ability to process credit card payments directly!  Wahoo!  :)  lol  I only offer my direct line to my best regular callers, though.  If you are one of my proven callers and you want info on my new direct line, please email me for more info.

PPS:  When you enjoy your call, tip your operator.  It means a lot to them.

If you are over 18, you may call me any time at 1 (888) 557-0355.

Tipping your phone sex operators

Hi guys, Mistress June here.

I often get asked about phone sex protocol, so I thought I would occasionally post here about how phone sex works and what you should expect as a caller or an operator.  If you have questions or topics you want me to cover, just email me or post comments here and I will respond promptly.  I am going to start with something that comes up often both with callers and with other phone sex operators (PSOs) – tipping or tributing or gift giving.

Think about all that you get from your time with your favorite phone sex Goddess.

Think about all that you get from your time with your favorite phone sex Goddess.

Phone sex is a service industry

where PSOs address client needs

much like a waitress or hair stylist would,

and tipping is a standard part of this industry.

Some sites refer to tips as tributes.  Some FemDom PSO’s may also call tips things like “cum taxes” or “acts of devotion”.  The end result is the same, though.  If you receive great service from an outstanding PSO, you will want to tip her at least 10 – 20 % on the call.  Some callers who are especially grateful or want to make a big impression on their operator or want to serve her with an especially generous act of devotion tip more than 100 %!  Other callers tip just $5 or $10 each call, no matter how long the call lasts.  And still others never tip at all.  Hopefully, if you are among this last group, you will remember your favorite PSO’s on Christmas and their birthday’s with especially nice surprises!

Your business matters and good PSO’s will often thank you for your calls, but you should not confuse your call time with a tip or tribute.  I once had a caller say something like, “Well, I call my main Mistress five times a week for an hour each time!  I could never afford that if I had to tip her!”  Ack!  I explained to him how unsettling that way of thinking is with this anecdote….

Be good to your favorite phone sex operators.

Be good to your favorite phone sex operators.

Would you go to your favorite cafe five days a week and sit in the section where your favorite waitress works and then never tip her and think you are doing her a kindness by being there?  By sitting in her table all that time, you are making sure other customers – customers who might tip appropriately! – cannot sit there and you are assuring she will lose out on tips five days a week.  Don’t be so selfish.  Call her four days a week instead and then tip her for her great service.  She will feel appreciated, you will feel generous, and you will both always delight in your time together.

You might also want to ask your PSO how she prefers to receive her tributes.  Some prefer to get them via their calling platform – like NiteFlirt or Adult Phone Pal.  Others prefer to get tips as Amazon gift cards or as gifts from their wishlists.  Please note that if you send gifts, you should let your operator know!  Amazon does not tell us and some of us use a mail forwarding service for gifts, so we may not receive the gift for a little while.  It is good to let your PSO know so she can watch for your thoughtful surprise.

Thank you for caring enough to want to be a good caller and a positive part of your PSO’s experience!

If you have any questions or comments, please share them below.

Talk to you soon!

Mistress June

If you are over 18, you may call me any time at 1 (888) 557-0355.

 

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