What is Financial Domination? Lady Andra explains FinDom

Introduction to Financial Domination

or Why Giving Me Your Money Makes You Hard

by LadyAndra

LadyAndra from NiteFlirt writes about FinDom or Financial Domination

The exquisite LadyAndra

Financial domination what is it? If you’re reading this article I’m sure you’ve asked yourself that question. You’ve seen things and you’re curious, you want to know more. I’m going to answer some of your questions. Financial domination can be a complex fetish tied to many other desires, so my explanations will not be exhaustive but should whet your appetite to explore financial domination on your own. What follows is of course my not-at-all-humble opinion on the subject, and is based on my own experiences with financial submissives.

Financial dominationAt first glimpse it would seem financial domination is about money, but money as in all cases is simply a means to an end. Financial domination is about power and control. In our society despite the progress that has been made, one of the last arenas of male power is money. This not to say women can’t make money and lots of it. However the fact remains that men are still paid more than women. I am not going to launch into a long diatribe about the causes of wage disparity between the genders, because I would hope we all have a basic grasp of those issues.

When a man subjugates himself to a woman financially

it is an exchange of power that he can’t deny to himself once the high has worn off.

A man can hide the trappings of most fetishes,

but it’s not so easy to explain missing funds, downgrades in lifestyle etc.

Financial domination phone sexFinancial domination is a fetish with very real consequences beyond the BDSM world. For example if a submissive gives up going out to lunch, a small sacrifice, this causes ripples is his non-kinky life. He possibly has to explain to his significant other his sudden interest in brown bagging it. He may have to skip having lunch with colleagues who are going out. What will he say? He’s dieting? Eating healthy? Trying to save money? Now that last excuse has the potential to diminish him in the eyes of his co-workers. It may appear he is not doing well. Yet he can’t reveal the truth that he is sacrificing for his Mistress, that she will not allow him the privilege of dining out. No, he can’t say any of those things but he will know them. Everyone can see his sacrifice, but only the two of you understand it. He will sit at his desk he will eat alone and he will be under control.

Every tribute, and every gift a financial slave gives to his Mistress is something he can not have for himself, yet he will be happy. The financial slave will find his enjoyment in making the life of the financial domme ever more luxurious. She doesn’t need his money she has plenty of her own but he will add to her life allowing her to be ever wealthier, ever more extravagant. It becomes not merely his duty, but his purpose. His service, the sacrifice of his own luxury and comfort so that the financial domme can have more, and more. The financial slave may be rewarded for his sacrifice with attention, with humiliation, with indulgence, perhaps a glimpse of her foot, or he may get nothing. Well nothing but the satisfaction of having submitted and served well.

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