Tipping your phone sex operators

Hi guys, Mistress June here.

I often get asked about phone sex protocol, so I thought I would occasionally post here about how phone sex works and what you should expect as a caller or an operator.  If you have questions or topics you want me to cover, just email me or post comments here and I will respond promptly.  I am going to start with something that comes up often both with callers and with other phone sex operators (PSOs) – tipping or tributing or gift giving.

Think about all that you get from your time with your favorite phone sex Goddess.

Think about all that you get from your time with your favorite phone sex Goddess.

Phone sex is a service industry

where PSOs address client needs

much like a waitress or hair stylist would,

and tipping is a standard part of this industry.

Some sites refer to tips as tributes.  Some FemDom PSO’s may also call tips things like “cum taxes” or “acts of devotion”.  The end result is the same, though.  If you receive great service from an outstanding PSO, you will want to tip her at least 10 – 20 % on the call.  Some callers who are especially grateful or want to make a big impression on their operator or want to serve her with an especially generous act of devotion tip more than 100 %!  Other callers tip just $5 or $10 each call, no matter how long the call lasts.  And still others never tip at all.  Hopefully, if you are among this last group, you will remember your favorite PSO’s on Christmas and their birthday’s with especially nice surprises!

Your business matters and good PSO’s will often thank you for your calls, but you should not confuse your call time with a tip or tribute.  I once had a caller say something like, “Well, I call my main Mistress five times a week for an hour each time!  I could never afford that if I had to tip her!”  Ack!  I explained to him how unsettling that way of thinking is with this anecdote….

Be good to your favorite phone sex operators.

Be good to your favorite phone sex operators.

Would you go to your favorite cafe five days a week and sit in the section where your favorite waitress works and then never tip her and think you are doing her a kindness by being there?  By sitting in her table all that time, you are making sure other customers – customers who might tip appropriately! – cannot sit there and you are assuring she will lose out on tips five days a week.  Don’t be so selfish.  Call her four days a week instead and then tip her for her great service.  She will feel appreciated, you will feel generous, and you will both always delight in your time together.

You might also want to ask your PSO how she prefers to receive her tributes.  Some prefer to get them via their calling platform – like NiteFlirt or Adult Phone Pal.  Others prefer to get tips as Amazon gift cards or as gifts from their wishlists.  Please note that if you send gifts, you should let your operator know!  Amazon does not tell us and some of us use a mail forwarding service for gifts, so we may not receive the gift for a little while.  It is good to let your PSO know so she can watch for your thoughtful surprise.

Thank you for caring enough to want to be a good caller and a positive part of your PSO’s experience!

If you have any questions or comments, please share them below.

Talk to you soon!

Mistress June

If you are over 18, you may call me any time at 1 (888) 557-0355.

 

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