Love and Phone Sex, Monogamy, Cheating, and Devotion

Hi bois and gurls,

I am reviving this fun site as a place to share topics of interest to the phone sex community.  Hopefully articles here will interest both phone sex callers and phone sex operators.  I would still like to share articles here from other authors, too.  So if you have an interesting take on any phone sex topic, please consider sharing your perspective in an article of 500 – 700 words.

For today’s post, I intend to very briefly touch on three topics related to love and phone sex.  All views shared are my personal take on these things.  Different phone sex operators (PSO’s) may feel differently.  If you would like to see any one of these concepts more fleshed out in a future post, please let me know that in the comment area.

 

Loving phone sex calls

Phone sex and men in relationships:

 

Phone sex is a safe way to connect with another human being to share a fun fantasy.  It is healthier than looking at porn alone.  You cannot catch a disease.  You will not be arrested and on the evening news.  You are not exploiting a vulnerable woman as might be the case with prostitution.  You are helping to support the entrepreneurial life of your PSO.  You might learn something new.  And you might develop a caring bond with someone who can offer you a safe place to share your secrets.  But you are not cheating on your spouse or girlfriend.  Not in my eyes.

I am a FemDom specialist.  I am not in competition with the woman you love.  Callers come to me for very specific needs when their spouse or partner does not share their interests.  Expecting your partner to learn your kinks and become a FemDom Goddess for you when that is not her thing is like expecting your partner to learn how to clean your teeth and cut your hair because you would feel like you were cheating if you went to a dental hygienist or a hairstylist.  You see specialist all the time for all kinds of personal services and it is not cheating.  I am just like an accountant or a hairstylist or a therapist.  I am a professional who offers a specialized service.  We are never going to meet.  I have no interest in being your girlfriend.  You are not cheating with me.  You are just hiring a professional to take care of a specific need.  Perfectly safe.  Perfectly healthy.

 

Sharing a loving phone sex call

Phone sex connections between callers and operators:

 

I often develop close and caring connections with my phone sex callers.  Our connections are real and meaningful.  But they are also occurring within the confines of some pretty clear boundaries.  I have had callers tell me they love me and I am perfectly comfortable with that.  (Not all Mistresses feel the same, so you should always respect the comfort zone of your phone sex partner.)  I do not believe in Hallmark fairy tale Disney love, I am not that kind of romantic.  But I do believe in a Holy (non-religious) connection between all living things and I believe sometimes that connection shines brighter than others.  I may on occasion reply that I love my caller, too, if I feel certain he will not misinterpret my platonic (often nurturing) kind of love.

I am not possessive, so I have no problem with my callers also trying out other PSO’s.  Most often, my callers prefer to call only me, but they would not be in trouble if they explore their options and seek a little variety.

 

Phone sex is healthy.

Loving phone sex role play:

 

Some callers want to explore scenes where love is a factor.  All different kinds of love from controlling and possessive love to nurturing maternal love to cuckolding and alternative lifestyle kinds of love.  I always enjoy role play scenes where love is at play, but it is imperative before the scene that we agree on what is real and what is fantasy.  This cannot be assumed, it must be made clear.  I really enjoy playing with emotion when I know there is no confusion and no chance that your feelings would get hurt.  You are paying me for a fantasy experience and if you want to feel vulnerable and emotionally open, role play scenes involving love are a great way to explore your submissive side.  Don’t be afraid to talk to me about your desire for loving scenes.

 

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Finally, a note about safety…

 

If you ever feel like you might be getting TOO into our scenes or you might be losing touch with reality, please tell me that right away.  I am not a therapist and would never pretend to offer therapeutic guidance.  But I can be a supportive presence with very firm boundaries to offer you a sexual outlet while you seek the right mental health professional for your emotional healing.

 

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If you would like to explore these topics in depth, please give me a call!  I can be reached at 1-85-JOY-85-HOPE which is 1 (855) 698-5467.

I look forward to playing with you soon!

Mistress June

 

 

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