Tipping your phone sex operators

Hi guys, Mistress June here.

I often get asked about phone sex protocol, so I thought I would occasionally post here about how phone sex works and what you should expect as a caller or an operator.  If you have questions or topics you want me to cover, just email me or post comments here and I will respond promptly.  I am going to start with something that comes up often both with callers and with other phone sex operators (PSOs) – tipping or tributing or gift giving.

Think about all that you get from your time with your favorite phone sex Goddess.

Think about all that you get from your time with your favorite phone sex Goddess.

Phone sex is a service industry

where PSOs address client needs

much like a waitress or hair stylist would,

and tipping is a standard part of this industry.

Some sites refer to tips as tributes.  Some FemDom PSO’s may also call tips things like “cum taxes” or “acts of devotion”.  The end result is the same, though.  If you receive great service from an outstanding PSO, you will want to tip her at least 10 – 20 % on the call.  Some callers who are especially grateful or want to make a big impression on their operator or want to serve her with an especially generous act of devotion tip more than 100 %!  Other callers tip just $5 or $10 each call, no matter how long the call lasts.  And still others never tip at all.  Hopefully, if you are among this last group, you will remember your favorite PSO’s on Christmas and their birthday’s with especially nice surprises!

Your business matters and good PSO’s will often thank you for your calls, but you should not confuse your call time with a tip or tribute.  I once had a caller say something like, “Well, I call my main Mistress five times a week for an hour each time!  I could never afford that if I had to tip her!”  Ack!  I explained to him how unsettling that way of thinking is with this anecdote….

Be good to your favorite phone sex operators.

Be good to your favorite phone sex operators.

Would you go to your favorite cafe five days a week and sit in the section where your favorite waitress works and then never tip her and think you are doing her a kindness by being there?  By sitting in her table all that time, you are making sure other customers – customers who might tip appropriately! – cannot sit there and you are assuring she will lose out on tips five days a week.  Don’t be so selfish.  Call her four days a week instead and then tip her for her great service.  She will feel appreciated, you will feel generous, and you will both always delight in your time together.

You might also want to ask your PSO how she prefers to receive her tributes.  Some prefer to get them via their calling platform – like NiteFlirt or Adult Phone Pal.  Others prefer to get tips as Amazon gift cards or as gifts from their wishlists.  Please note that if you send gifts, you should let your operator know!  Amazon does not tell us and some of us use a mail forwarding service for gifts, so we may not receive the gift for a little while.  It is good to let your PSO know so she can watch for your thoughtful surprise.

Thank you for caring enough to want to be a good caller and a positive part of your PSO’s experience!

If you have any questions or comments, please share them below.

Talk to you soon!

Mistress June

If you are over 18, you may call me any time at 1 (888) 557-0355.

 

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Creative phone sex, imaginative role play scenes with Emmalouise

emma1sqsmEmmalouise talks about intimate phone sex

 

“This is a fantasy business, Reverend. You can have any truth you want . . . I’m Cinderella, Cleopatra, Goldie Hawn, Eva Braun; I’m Little Miss Muffett, I’m Pocahontas, I’m whoever you want me to BE, Reverend.” ~~ China Blue played by Kathleen Turner in “Crimes of Passion”

 

 

Intimate phone sex role play scenes

Creative phone sex is a magical place. It’s an obvious cliche to say both parties to the call can “be” anyone. But beyond the cliche is the truth: absolute and unlimited fantasy.

The phone connection allows complete anonymity. Two nameless, faceless people. connected only by digital and fiber optic signals, and held together only as long as the credit card transaction dictates. And yet somewhere in that electronic space, magic can happen: the deepest and starkest intimacy imaginable. It can be brutal, or sweet as sunlight on nectar. Erotic and lacerating, or erotic and healing

I am a woman and when necessary, I have been a man. I have been my mature, experienced self, and I have been a virgin and a youth. I have been mother, sister, angel, and demon of the dark.

Colorful creative phone sexBut more special to me: who my callers can become. They can become wealthy successful professionals, body-builders, business geniuses. Or so shy they can barely speak. They are my lover, my landlord, my slave, a stranger passing through, a virgin. Their cocks range from the size of baseball bats to microdicks.

One beautiful man called and as he and I just chatted about lost opportunities, he suggested he play a woman I had loved and never told, and “she” and I made love for the first time, rewriting history 20 years in my past. So beautiful, so incredibly erotic, and we both climaxed so tremblingly hard. And he’s far from the first man whose secret dream was to become a woman (though that wasn’t his secret dream–it was just a gift of the moment given to both of us).

It surprises me that more men don’t pick up the phone and call us. There is an entire fantasy world at their fingertips and they have no idea. Spread the word!

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** You can learn more about Emmalouise on her blog at www.YourDarkestSecrets.com. **

What is Financial Domination? Lady Andra explains FinDom

Introduction to Financial Domination

or Why Giving Me Your Money Makes You Hard

by LadyAndra

LadyAndra from NiteFlirt writes about FinDom or Financial Domination

The exquisite LadyAndra

Financial domination what is it? If you’re reading this article I’m sure you’ve asked yourself that question. You’ve seen things and you’re curious, you want to know more. I’m going to answer some of your questions. Financial domination can be a complex fetish tied to many other desires, so my explanations will not be exhaustive but should whet your appetite to explore financial domination on your own. What follows is of course my not-at-all-humble opinion on the subject, and is based on my own experiences with financial submissives.

Financial dominationAt first glimpse it would seem financial domination is about money, but money as in all cases is simply a means to an end. Financial domination is about power and control. In our society despite the progress that has been made, one of the last arenas of male power is money. This not to say women can’t make money and lots of it. However the fact remains that men are still paid more than women. I am not going to launch into a long diatribe about the causes of wage disparity between the genders, because I would hope we all have a basic grasp of those issues.

When a man subjugates himself to a woman financially

it is an exchange of power that he can’t deny to himself once the high has worn off.

A man can hide the trappings of most fetishes,

but it’s not so easy to explain missing funds, downgrades in lifestyle etc.

Financial domination phone sexFinancial domination is a fetish with very real consequences beyond the BDSM world. For example if a submissive gives up going out to lunch, a small sacrifice, this causes ripples is his non-kinky life. He possibly has to explain to his significant other his sudden interest in brown bagging it. He may have to skip having lunch with colleagues who are going out. What will he say? He’s dieting? Eating healthy? Trying to save money? Now that last excuse has the potential to diminish him in the eyes of his co-workers. It may appear he is not doing well. Yet he can’t reveal the truth that he is sacrificing for his Mistress, that she will not allow him the privilege of dining out. No, he can’t say any of those things but he will know them. Everyone can see his sacrifice, but only the two of you understand it. He will sit at his desk he will eat alone and he will be under control.

Every tribute, and every gift a financial slave gives to his Mistress is something he can not have for himself, yet he will be happy. The financial slave will find his enjoyment in making the life of the financial domme ever more luxurious. She doesn’t need his money she has plenty of her own but he will add to her life allowing her to be ever wealthier, ever more extravagant. It becomes not merely his duty, but his purpose. His service, the sacrifice of his own luxury and comfort so that the financial domme can have more, and more. The financial slave may be rewarded for his sacrifice with attention, with humiliation, with indulgence, perhaps a glimpse of her foot, or he may get nothing. Well nothing but the satisfaction of having submitted and served well.

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The beautiful and brilliant LadyAndra can be found on NiteFlirt by clicking here.  Post any questions or comments for her below.  Thank you, LadyAndra for sharing this fabulous intro to FinDom!

(If you would like to write about your favorite fetish or phone sex experience, please contact Mistress June through EliteDomme.com.  I would love to publish you.)