My phone sex angle on current events – the Boston bombing

This column is a companion piece to the article that posted to the NiteFlirt blog this morning. My response to the bombing in Boston.

Wild women know how to let looseSo I just told you this would not be a vanity site and now I am writing a column about my ideas and feelings, but that will not be the norm here! :) I promise. This week is special. I wrote about the bombings for the NiteFlirt blog and I wanted to continue that line of inquiry here. What do you think drives people to that level of madness? And do you see any way for us to as a culture to make it less likely?

I feel like extremists often seem to be ascetics. Am I right about that? If you know about these things, please comment below. But I wonder about people living without pleasure and denying their needs and appetites, what it does to them. I also feel like extremists often seem to come from environments that stress a kind of mythical male power. Muslim cultures, Central America, certain African nations – places where men are supposed to be obeyed without question. Doesn’t that seem like a dangerous combination? Men with limitless power denying their sexuality?

Strong sensible women keep the peacePlease know that I am NOT making light of what happened.

I am devastated by each senseless act of destruction that comes along and I want the violence to stop and I feel for the victims. With that said…

I think the world will be a better place when there are more female supremacists, when men are better able to admit their softer instincts and their fallibility, and when all people allow themselves pleasure and quit acting like Puritanical ninnies. We need more strong smart women, powerful women, wild women and the men who love them.

We all fell so much stress these days. We NEED releases. (Unless we are chronic masturbators or weak perverts and then there are different rules.) Take a break from all of the miserable news. Turn off your TV and your computer for an hour and indulge in a hot phone sex call. Recharge so you can head out in this wild world and fight the good fight against extremists and zealots.

My sincerest sympathies to folks in Boston.

Sending light and love,

Mistress June

from EliteDomme.com

 

If you are over 18, you may call me any time at 1 (888) 557-0355.

MarketingJohn Creates Social Options for NiteFlirt Callers and Flirts

I got to chatting with the new marketing guy at NiteFlirt, MarketingJohn, and we discovered a shared love for the phone sex community.  I agreed to share my column with NiteFlirt and he agrees to be interviewed and maybe to hook me up with other NF folks to interview down the road a bit.  Woohoo!  :)  So here is some of my chat with Marketing John – referred to sometimes as MJ but not to be confused with Michael Jackson. (I have a few connections, but not those kinds of connections.)  For the full interview, please visit NiteFlirt and check out their blog.

I started the interview just asking MJ to introduce himself and he shared:

It is always party time at NiteFlirt.com.

It is always party time at NiteFlirt.com.

MJ:  I am the new guy. The guy who has taken over Marketing at NiteFlirt. I come from a crazy background, with hands in all kinds of quirky businesses and ‘off the beaten path’ gigs and adventures. I bring a real strong creative sensibility to my world here at NiteFlirt and intend on pushing as many envelopes as I possibly can, although admittedly most of those envelopes may already be open in this little world that we all call home now. Ha.  I LOVE input and creative ideas thrown my way, so don’t hesitate!

NEXT, I asked MJ to share a little about his vision of NiteFlirt in general and he offered:

MJ:  We need to spin a web that is inclusive of everyone without scaring anyone away. It can be tricky! It is such an interesting space because, let’s face it, almost everyone LOVES what we do, but a lot of those people prefer to keep that love somewhat hidden. It’s my job to find ways to draw those people out a little more and show them that it’s alright to let their kink flag fly with us!

And finally, I asked John:

Okay, question #3 – My last question, have you ever tried phone sex?

He he… just kidding! Are you blushing?  No, that is not my last question either.

Final question, what is one of your goals for the future of NiteFlirt? Tell us about something you are working on.

MJ:  Ha. I am a bit of a pussycat so I haven’t really delved into phone sex too much. I know that’s not your official question but just answering because i don’t mind. I definitely don’t have the “I want to be dominated and pushed around” side really. But I guess sometimes the boys don’t know they do, huh? Ha.

I honestly have so many goals at the ‘Flirt. Continue to grow and build on the social media footprints that we have already started on the last few months. Everything from continuing to grow our Tumblr blog to better communication on Twitter, and a deeper community feel on Facebook. Not to mention NiteFlirt’s own blog! We’re active on so many other sites, but that’s just to name a few where people can engage with me and NiteFlirt as a whole.

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Again, you can read more on the NiteFlirt blog.  Folks should feel free to contact MJ through any of the NiteFlirt social media outlets or through comments here.

 

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Mistress June from EliteDomme.comI am Mistress June and I am a great fan of phone sex.  I have a curious mind and I am not shy, so I often find myself asking questions of interesting people in the phone sex community.  Callers and other operators routinely ask me, “Where did you learn that?  That is fascinating!”  So after repeating enough anecdotes enough times, it occurred to me that we all need a site where phone sex news and related stories are compiled for all to see.  And here we are.

This is not a vanity project and I am not a know-it-all.  I am just curious and saw a need for this kind of outlet.  I want you all to participate in any way you like.  Want to be interviewed?  Great!  Want to guest-write a column?  Fabulous!  Have an idea for a topic?  Something you have always wondered about but did not know how or where to learn about it?  Tell me!  I enjoy learning and I will find the answer.

Fun phone sex is good for you.Recently, I had the good fortune to bump into a fellow from NiteFlirt who shall now be known as Marketing John.  MJ and I got to chatting and realized we had some common interests.  So a variation of this column will post to the NiteFlirt blog each Wednesday, too!  I will sneak extra newsy tidbits in there, so be sure to check out that version, too.  I am excited to be able to share news here and with the broader audience of NiteFlirt.  Yay!  Thanks, MJ.

To reward Marketing John for his friendly open attitude, I decided to turn the spotlight on him right off!  So Column #2 from PhoneSexLove will be an interview with the new marketing guy at NiteFlirt.  The fellow you are likely to interacting with on Twitter and NiteFlirt when you play with NiteFlirt online.  Stop by tomorrow afternoon for that column and an accompanying podcast.

Thank you for visiting.  I look forward to getting to know you!  Please say hi in the comments below.

Mistress June

If you are over 18, you may call me any time at 1 (888) 557-0355.